One of the reasons folks don’t assert themselves in relationships is because of Fear. Fear of being denied, rejected or misunderstood. So, instead of asking you start to complain. Complain that people don’t know how to act or treat you, or that men these days are too passive, that they don’t care. A good example [...]
Archive | June, 2009
Be Comfortable With Being Uncomfortable
“I need to be comfortable!” Basically, when it comes to our lives, we don’t want to sit in our mess. That mess can be anything you don’t like right now—your ex, your single status, your married best friend, your cheating boyfriend, your insecure self, whatever it is, it’s about sitting with it instead of [...]
Speak Up Or Sit Down! Part I
Some of you may know her. That woman who speaks her mind and gets what she wants. All the while soft, vulnerable, and smart. This has nothing to do with having a big mouth, but only big dreams. What I’m talking about is being honest about your needs and feelings with people, specifically men. Unfortunately, [...]
POLL: Can Your Friend Trust You With Their Man?
Things happen… Man breaks up with long term girlfriend to be with her best friend. Or, woman leaves husband to marry her friend’s man. It may not be common place in the average neighborhood, but among the rich and wealthy this is the order of the day. By the time that wife of that rich [...]
WEEKEND REWIND: How To Tame An “Alphanista”
By Guest Blogger Te-Erika Patterson If you’re up for a challenge, your relationship with an Alphanista will be the most frustrating, yet exhilarating ride that you’ve ever experienced- that is, if you know how to navigate the rocky terrain. Sometimes I meet men who have so much potential but they just don’t get it. With [...]
Saturdays Will Never Be The Same Again…
Here we go, another weekend wear, I’d do this for a Saturday/Sunday lunch/brunch with the unkept hair and all. The jumper-look is in now. But is this right for Beyonce? The loose fit definitely slims her down even more, now the shoes…if they weren’t Louis V, I dunno…
Alphanista Hall of Fame: Heidi Horten
So, she’s not exactly ranked high in the good looks department (esp if you’ve seen other photos), but Ms. Horten is a true player. When I read up on her, I liked her story. I liked how she planned her take over since 19. We review all kinds of women for the Alphanista Hall Of [...]
ADVICE: My Brother’s Wife Is Cheating On Him!
I don’t know what to do. I am so confused. My brother’s wife is cheating on him. I know she is. They are both in their late 20s and been together for like 5 years, married. She has stepped out on him before. But my brother is so in love, so damn gullible over this [...]
Kaftan Lovin’
By Guest Blogger, Goldie Ladies, have you begun to update your summer wardrobe? I’m sure by now you’ve acquired your classic summer basics: the swimsuit, the breathable dress, the denim cutoffs, a pair of sandal, and a beach cover up. Everything else is custom to one’s lifestyle. Throughout the years, I have found one item [...]
“Watch Your Mouth…”
Do you have one way you speak to everyone? Does your voice “sound” a certain way? I hope not. Most of the opportunities and people miss out on have to do with the way they said something, not exactly what was said. You know that dreaded feeling: replaying for hours the words that came out [...]
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