Archive | June, 2009

Don’t Be A Chicken At The BBQ…

By Guest Blogger, Goldie Ladies, I seem to notice a plethora of women at cookouts wearing ill fitting attire. Shapeless tanks that only enhance the shapeless bra along with khaki shorts in funky lengths and flat sandals that do nothing but make your toes look long. That, alphanistas, is not our way of life. I’d like to extend [...]

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POLL: Do You Think Men Really Like Independent Women?

POLL: Do You Think Men Really Like Independent Women?

I was having this conversation the other day, and my answer was NO. Mostly because “independent” women talk about being independent so much that they stay that way. On the other hand, there may be a few men who like women who can do things for themselves and are only around to “enhance” not necessarily [...]

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Advice Update: Single Girl Doing Things Right

Advice Update: Single Girl Doing Things Right

This is a classic!  This was BEFORE 9 Tuesdays was even an ebook, but just shared among a close group of my friends who I trusted would value it.  Enjoy! _______________________________ Below is an email excerpt from Sherri with an update. With the hectic holiday season, she was able to send something which I appreciate.  [...]

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Would You Leave Your Family For Love?

I was on Twitter the other day and I asked:   If u fell in love would u move 2 a new city, leave your old family behind to marry your sweetheart? Would anyone NOT move? I was pleasantly surprised by the responses!  Sometimes, when we ask for love, we have no control over how it [...]

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R.I.P. Michael, True Fans Never Deserted You

Whether he was black or white, he was Michael. He was entitled to change his face, his color, or wear pajamas to court. Let’s just let him rest in peace, even though the very people who are praising him now, or those that caused him lots of pain.

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Is Anyone Else Pissed At Rihanna?

By Guest Blogger Denitra Samuels What Rihanna did to Chris Brown is insane. The other day she was standing all smug in the courtroom like a complete airhead. Now the system has to come in and tell them how far, how close, and how to wipe their behinds until further notice. I mean, really? All [...]

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Alphanista Watch: Teyana Taylor

[Editor's Note: We're Still Watching Bonified "Alphanista" Status Not Confirmed] By Guest Blogger, Goldie Dear Teyana Taylor, I get it! You want to be comfortable in your skin and show your Billionaire Boys Club rep. However, you are a woman now. One with great boobs, nice shaped butt and abs one would kill for. So [...]

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The Power Of Auto-Suggestion

The Power Of Auto-Suggestion

Before I get into the details, let me just say that these things and methods really don’t matter unless your back is up against the wall. If your life is fine and dandy, you may not care.  But if you are going through something, and have tried every way possible, it’s time to try something [...]

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Strike Out On Your Own!

By Guest Blogger Toi Personal relationships are wonderful, fulfilling, and valuable.   They are essential to your well being as a person. But as an Alphanista, you should not rely on others for every. little. thing. If you want to create new experiences for yourself, do NOT wait on other people to go with you to [...]

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POLL: Do You Have A Big Secret You Are Hiding?

There’s a saying that goes something like this:  When a girl gets her first big secret that she holds on to for fear of destroying her life or others that is when she becomes a woman. I’m pretty sure the person meant something serious perhaps a lie, a situation, an indiscretion or other variable that [...]

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