When I look at subjects for the Alphanista Hall of Fame I’m looking for people who didn’t come up all neat and tidy. I look for people who surprise, whose background doesn’t always match up to their success story, and are able to catapult themselves to a new level. To go to a new level, [...]
The Virgin Monologues: Get Him To Court You
By Guest Blogger, Gladys Wilson The primary purpose of dating should be to see if your partner is marriage material. Practicing Christians solve this problem by courting. However, if you just want to see if your partner is your best match then read on. The key to finding out if your partner is the right [...]
Would The Real Woman Please Stand Up?
by Maryann in Archives, Lifestyle
By Guest Blogger Sonia aka Ms. Stiletto Is First Lady Michelle Obama Better Than Secretary Hillary Clinton? Let’s look at the facts: 1. Michelle stands by her man all the time. Hillary does too, but only in the time of trouble. Throughout the presidential campaign, Michelle has been, now President Obama’s, #1 Supporter. That is [...]
Tip 13: How To Be An Alphanista
by Maryann in Archives, How To Be An Alphanista
“An alphanista knows two things-the art of reinvention and the art of surprise…. What happens when you can’t be all that you thought you could be? You reinvent yourself. Reinvention is not a linear process. It has nothing to do with finishing school, getting the right friends, job, love, or home. It is about surviving [...]
Be A Woman At Work, And A Lady At Home
by admin in Archives, Lifestyle
By Guest Blogger, Mumphlett An alphanista knows how to mix the old with the new… He’s my man and I love him. But, it’s been a while since we’ve done anything. And when I say anything … I mean anything together. And when I say together, I mean where both of us got something out [...]
Fathers Are The New Mothers?
Whatever happened with just asking a gal out on a date and see what happens? A couple of days ago Oprah had a show about fathers, and some who chose to be fathers without women. When the Chinese said “may you live in interesting times”, they meant that as a warning. Here’s the excerpt from [...]
I Confess….
Last week, Alphanista put out a call for anonymous confessions. Many of you said that you are tired of posing like everything is so perfect in your life. You just wanted to get something off your chest. I have reason to believe what follows is true. I had to shorten some. Everything is anonymous so [...]
Alphanista Moment: The Alfalfa Club Dinner
Probably never heard of it until this year. President Obama spoke at the January 2009 dinner who first admitted blacks in the 1970s. The Alfalfa Club is an uber-exclusive-even-Oprah-isn’t invited-DC social club that touts influential politicians and corporate executives as its members. Don’t wait for your invite in the mail. It exists only to hold [...]
A Hooker’s Take On Steve Harvey
Guest Blogger, The Hooker Chronicles Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man By Steve Harvey Good lord, nothings screams gullible like a bunch of women taking love and relationship advice from a man who’s been married 3 times and divorced 2. But hey, if they like it, I love it. But let’s look at [...]
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