This is my latest letter to Lisa Raye. It’s in response to the HAM of a video she had out yesterday complaining that her divorce money will not give her the lifestyle she was accustomed to before she married. I think she’s confused, she lived more of a hustle than a “lifestyle”. ________________________________ Dear Lisa: [...]
ADVICE: “Friends” With The Ex
by Maryann in Advice, Archives
I have been with my man for 8 months and his ex went crazy when she found out we got engaged! This is not a baby mama just a regular girl and she will not leave us alone. They were together for years. She finds out where we go, and shows up. She calls all [...]
You Don’t Know Him Quite Like She Does
by Maryann in Advice, Relationships
I cannot tell you how annoying it is when I hear women say “I know him so well.” There are women who make a living based on all the things you don’t know about your man, especially in bed! We never know anybody, at all because as we go from one relationship to the next [...]
Good Life: Flylady.net
by Maryann in The Good Life
In the most recent Alphanista newsletter, I shared with subscribers how this site is changing my life day by day. For the last few weeks things have been hectic, slowing down, but still hectic. My calls weren’t getting returned (which never happens!) and emails were piling up because I wasn’t doing much responding juggling being [...]
Alpha Female: Mary J. Blige
by Maryann in Archives, Yay or Nay?
Why, Mary? Because she has come from major adversity to take her life to worldly levels. An alpha female is not neat and tidy about her arrival. She’s gone through some things, and made it anyway amidst the surprised looks of her peers. It doesn’t matter what is “really” going on in her life, but [...]
“Buppie” Men Vs. “Civilian” Men
We’ll look at this from the context of dating and socializing. A buppie is a “black urban professional” or “black middle class”. The “civilians” are those who are not. You can only see the difference if you socialize in both worlds. I have my dose of buppie parties and my dose of “civilian” ones. So [...]
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