Last month, I was talking to someone who did that. She was in a see-saw relationship with someone that she called “complicated”. I don’t like that word. If it’s complicated, it just ain’t–period. It’s really nothing but some drama to keep you occupied. There’s no need to call anything “complicated”. It just is. Love is [...]
Can An Alpha Female Be A Sorority Girl?
By Guest Blogger Te-Erika Patterson [If you have an issue you want to write about, reach out to Maryann. Make sure you read what the blog is about first] The Alpha female stands out by nature and is uncomfortable conforming to the standards set by society that dictate her actions, growth and level of success. Her [...]
Loyal Or Faithful, Choose One
Loyalty is rational, faithfulness is emotional. Emotions change. People fluctuate. They come, they go. Yes, even after 30 years together, and not by death. When a man is loyal: Nothing can make him leave his wife, nothing. NATHAN. Even if she damn near kills the kids, he will stand by her. You’ve seen it in [...]
When Sleeping With the Boss Is “Business”
Several months ago, I did a survey of 300 professional women that showed almost 64% of them have slept with their boss or thought about it. Forty years ago, it would’ve been the way a wife meets her husband. She’s his secretary and they spend a little too much time alone in the office. Then they marry. [...]
Weekend Rewind: 10 Tips To Find A Man Without Leaving The House
This is an oldie, but goodie. Most of us know how to do it outside the house. It’s Valentine’s Day weekend, this little list may come in handy for those of you who want a relationship. To the others “under construction” or just waiting that’s cool, too, as long as you honor your yeses and [...]
Whet Your Alpha’s Appetite V-Day Morning
You should be waking up a little late tomorrow morning (ahem!) for very good reasons (cough). But you may want to wake up a few minutes earlier and make something a little special, satisfying and can take you both through the afternoon. The bananas makes the house smell so yummy and cozy. Later, ya’ll can [...]
If Rihanna Was An Alpha Female…
*She would have handled this differently. Based on their celebrity status this needed time to unpack before contacting authorities. At the end of the day, these two are still children, still green, with raw, unfiltered emotions that can destroy lives and careers. Now it’s a media blitz even before all the details are revealed *She [...]
You’re My SoulMate Whether You Know It Or Not
by Maryann in Uncategorized
She looked great on Grammys. But, whoever thought Whitney and Bobby would split? Folks couldn’t see these two with anybody else but each other. It’s possible to have love for someone and not be with them. Not even have the desire to be with them. Maybe the desire is there, but it’s not strong enough. [...]
Alpha Females Are People, Too
Yes, alpha females do live in the world and find themselves in situations good and bad like the rest of us. This blog reflects that–we have fun, and we talk about serious issues, too. It’s all from an alpha female perspective-mine, and many of the comments from readers represent that and a variety of others. [...]
Is Being A Golddigger Bad?
No. Wish I could stop there. I’m not advocating golddigging, but I do believe most women can’t help themselves. Ask a Russian chick, they’re the best golddiggers in the world. Just like a woman gets whip lash looking at all the Loubs at Saks Fifth Avenue, she has the same reaction to a man in a [...]
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