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Archive | January, 2009

WEEKEND REWIND: Advice: Need A Woman, I Think

I’m what many of you women call a “dog” because I had a lot of women. I’m tall, handsome, gainfully employed, in good shape, got my own car, home, and even a second home. I know I can be a good provider. I haven’t had a real girlfriend in like 5 years. I’m 38. I [...]

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“Let Go” Update! 9 Tuesdays Ebook

by Maryann in Archives

I’d like to say this update came as a surprise, but it didn’t. It works if you work it. This is a great testament of what happens when you “let go” of the wheel. You can purchase the ebook at the link above or here. (Teleclasses are sold out for now) ________________________________ I recently [...]

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Are Older Women Really Better?

by Maryann in Advice

I guess it depends on who you ask. On Blogxilla, they list a couple of reasons why: –Older Women Want It More –They Know What They Want –Sugar Mama Possibilities –Likes Sports and Porn I’d like to add a few: –Older Women Have A Better Handle On Their Emotions –Older Women Can’t Be Bothered Listening [...]

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You Can Have Whatever (Man) You Like…

by Maryann in Archives

(Alphanista welcomes guest bloggers who fit our perspective) By Guest Blogger Te-Erika Patterson While watching a television biography about the union of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver, I was amazed to learn that the entire time Schwarzenegger was single he envisioned marrying someone from a political family, well connected or perhaps even royalty. He saw himself [...]

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ADVICE: My Man Is Trying To Leave Me

by Maryann in Advice, Archives

I have been with my man for a year now. We are both in our early 30s and spend lots of time together. We did everything together—shopping, eating, traveling, cooking, exercising, you name it. Moving in together was the only thing left to do. When January rolled around and he didn’t mention it, it got [...]

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POLL: Is It OK To Blast Someone On A BillBoard Who Did You Wrong?

by Maryann in News

Last week, there was some major news about a sister who blasted her millionaire sugar daddy on some NYC billboards. It was an 8 year affair and he, the CEO of Oracle and a member of the Obama administration, broke it off recently. As expected, she blacked out. Women cheered her on as a woman [...]

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Letter from Alpha Female In Dubai

by Maryann in Archives, Relationships

This is a letter from a dear friend who is an alpha female who was having a hard time dating in NYC. She upped and totally changed her life. Will get an update from her soon. So far, she is doing fine and adjusting. Disappeared on me, but…But whatever you are facing, know that your [...]

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Alpha Female: Lauryn Hill

by Maryann in Archives, Lifestyle

We all know the back story… …a talented singer, Grammy award winning music sensation and actress leaves the business unexpectedly to sit at the feet of a Jamaican obeah man, have 5 children by the son of a prophet, and the rest is history. Well, something like that. This is what I like about Lauryn [...]

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How To Talk To A Man

by Maryann in Advice, Archives, Relationships

I read about this on Blogxilla, a very intriguing post from a man’s perspective that got me to thinking. Women think they know how to talk to a man because they talk to him like they do their friends–girlfriends. Definitely a no no. Here’s what the blog said, a few of its rules: Get To [...]

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Alpha Male: RZA

by Maryann in Advice, Yay or Nay?

At Alphanista™, we like to look at all alphas in every field, who leave a mark, because there’s at least one alpha in everything–for the Alphanista™ Hall of Fame. Now, I am no rap historian, but I have been in love with this man since reading that Vibe (or Source) interview he did back in [...]