[NOTE: THIS POST IS IN NO WAY CONDONING BAD TREATMENT. DO AS YOU SEE FIT IN YOUR RELATIONS. HOWEVER, THIS POST, AS ALL POSTS DO, ENCOURAGE YOU TO BE YOURSELF AND NEVER LET ANYONE CHANGE WHO YOU ARE AND GO OUT AND BUY STRIPPER SHOES JUST TO KEEP HIM. CARRY ON...] Where do I begin [...]
To A Smart Girl Men Are No Problem, They’re The Answer
by Maryann in Uncategorized
Here’s a little something to take through your weekend. The above words of actress Zsa Zsa Gabor. I absolutely adore men. Not all women do because they see them as a source of stress, but so is the long ass menu at The Cheesecake Factory, but I’m not giving that up! I like how men make me feel as a woman. I [...]
He Said/She Said Game: Your Side Of The Story
by Maryann in He Said/She Said
[NEWS FLASH: There's a new blog feature where you can listen to posts like this one if you don't have time to read, and download it to your Itunes or MP3. Click on "Listen Now"] Here we are again. The flood of emails have been increasing week by week for requests to get the facts straight. After a [...]
If You’re Single And Still Finding Yourself…Part II
There’s this insanity lately that you have to be perfected and mended up emotionally before you can meet someone. If you’re a bad person, you’ll attract a bad person. Yada yada. This is driving so many people to just well, be perfect, which is impossible or make them think something is wrong with them. Well, [...]
Tip 6: How To Be An Alpha Female
by Maryann in Archives, How To Be An Alphanista
“You immediately know when an alpha female walks in the room; enters at the same status as the leaders in the room, she glides in; close mouthed smile, eyes canvassing everything for the big swoop down…” This is so important and I’m going to tell you why. If you enter a room in any other way people [...]
Tip 5: How To Be An Alpha Female
by Maryann in Archives, How To Be An Alphanista
An alpha female cannot be categorized, and will always rise above the stereotype of being a “woman” or rise above a group; in fact she doesn’t even think she is a “woman” for she is embarrassed to the level many have succumbed to by their emotional recklessness; Former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher once said, “Don’t ask [...]
ADVICE: Single Girl Doing Things Right
I’ve been single for 4 years. In that time I got my Bachelors a certificate in nursing I moved to my own place and I finally began paying down my debt. That makes 4 years of focusing on me me me. Reading the self help helpbooks, attending classes (I know, I know ) and all that good [...]
Stuff Single Black Women Like #3: Life Coaches
One thing about most single black women is that if they are single they believe, either consciously or subconsciously that something is wrong with them. It’s either they have too much money, intimidate men, don’t meet any men, are overweight, are underweight, butt isn’t big enough, over educated, have children, don’t have children, not enough [...]
“It’s Complicated” Is That The New Relationship Mantra?
by Maryann in Uncategorized
Lately, this relationship called “it’s complicated” has been rearing its ugly head everywhere. Even on FaceBook there’s an option to check off. No longer are people checking off: single or married. They are all proud and hefty about a situation being “complicated”. It’s cute and fuzzy. It makes it look like you have somebody, when [...]
Men Who Have Issues With Money Have Issues
by Maryann in Uncategorized
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