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Archive | December, 2008

The Alphanista Manifesto For 2009

(No new posts today because of New Year’s Day) Earlier this week, I asked several of you to post your themes for 2009! We don’t do list of goals, too pedestrian, too easy to skip and feel bad all over again. We are about being proactive around here mixed with a little bitchin’ about life [...]

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Kanye: I Ain’t Sayin’ He’s An Alpha Male, But…

by Maryann in Archives

….if the shoe fits… Here’s what Kanye West told People magazine some months back about his search for a wife: “I want to have kids, but I want to have the right girl too – someone who really cares about me….When I’m in a club, girls are super-calculating, planning every step,” he says. So, my [...]

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Weekend Rewind: Get Your “Trophy” Man

by Maryann in Archives

Here’s an oldie, but goodie. It’s a new year ladies, time to take it to the next level of bigger is better, no? Enjoy! One thing I never lacked was a man of substance, value, and influence. Timing or character wasn’t always on point, but that can be addressed in another blog. A man should [...]

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Tip 10: How To Be An Alpha Female

by Maryann in Archives, How To Be An Alphanista

“An alpha female crushes her female competition to get the most wanted man in the room, in fact she revels in her power over men, in fact, men love her for it…” This tip right here can go so many different ways. Sigh. First let me clarify why an alpha would need to do this: [...]

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Check Me Out In Newsweek

by Maryann in Uncategorized

Please read my piece in the My Turn section of NEWSWEEK today, “A No Excuses Christmas…” Yes, it’s Obama related Enjoy!

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ADVICE: I Want My Ex Back For Good

by Maryann in Advice, Archives, Relationships

I would first off like to thank you for your continued insight…I am so addicted to reading this website… I definitely consider myself to be alpha female, but over the past few years I’ve been feeling quite, unalpha-female ish. I am desperately in love with my ex boyfriend. I am a confident, intelligent beautiful young [...]

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A Word From Alphanista™

by Maryann in Archives

Thank you again to all the new subscribers we’ve had in the last several weeks. Some of you have been in touch with me about the blog and had questions. Below are some things you need to know: 1. If you are a subscriber and have an idea, alpha article or question, please email it [...]

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Tip 8: How To Be An Alpha Female

by Maryann in Archives, How To Be An Alphanista

“An alpha female may have a hard time at work because of her innate leadership skills and can ruffle the wrong feathers; she manages to rise to the top because of her style and intellect…” An alpha female at work can be two things: she can be the best person you’ve ever worked with and [...]

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ADVICE: Me, Myself, and I…But I Don’t!

by Maryann in Advice

I moved to NYC about a year ago from Atlanta, and I am so frustrated that this city is so dead. I have no friends, can’t meet any, and I am tired of going out alone. I go out and no one talks to me. The guys don’t even look at me, and I am [...]

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