Archive | October, 2008

Stuff Single Black Women Like: Bubble Baths W/Candles

Granted, most women like bubble baths.  But single black women somehow justify taking a bubble bath by candle light as another good reason not to have a man.  A man who may usually walk in and fart up the bathroom destroying the whole ambiance.  Single black women make a ritual out of this.  They cancel [...]

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Stuff Single Black Women Like: Little Dogs

Are they the new spinsters with cats?  Last week, a male friend told me he would never date a girl with a pet. He said it showed him that she resigned her life to being single and that she gave little thought to how a pet would affect a new relationship. This is true. Pets [...]

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Hello, Cheating Is Not News Anymore

When all else fails, write a story about cheating.  Today the NY Times published an article “Love Sex and The Changing Landscape of Infidelity” that said the rate of women who cheat is increasing and is almost on par with men who cheat according to a recent survey conducted by researchers who need more money [...]

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Back That “Dash” Up For Your Man

An “alphanista” always looks good for her man, but untils he finds one she only wants to adorn herself in the finest things, even if it’s imaginary.  Actress Stacey Dash embodies what being an alphanista is all about.  She constantly reinvents herself while still being a poster girl for true, black beauty or beauty, period.  [...]

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Uhm, Can I Have Wings W/That And A Stripper For My Husband?

Rapper T-Pain told BLENDER MAGAZINE in a recent issue that he and his wife go to strip clubs together and download porn.  Here’s what he said: “My wife and I download pornos together,” he says. “She goes with me to strip clubs. She’ll be tipping bitches and everything….“I’ll be at a club, just surrounded by [...]

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Some Women Don’t Like Me, If Only I Were A “Woman”

You’ll know what I mean, when I say a “woman” if you’ve read my posts about the alpha-female.   It’s about not succumbing to stereotypical “woman” tendencies to be reactive, instead of proactive.  A special kind of “alphanista” trait.  So, I was “palling” around on the internet like I usually do searching for stuff about me.  [...]

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A TopCoat Is Too Sexy For Words

But I have words. On the Q train Friday evening I couldn’t help but notice or salivate at the handsome men in topcoats. They’re coats, but not really. Called “overcoats” sometimes. They go best with suits. It has a sort of vintage-y 1940s-1950 “Mad Men” type of appeal to it. It’s also very masculine. It [...]

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The Alpha-Female–More Than A Woman

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR BLOG! Enter your Email Unlike the Alpha-Male who has extensive studies on his conduct and behavior, the research on this peculiar type of woman is still limited. I know it well, because I wear it well. Always tried to subdue it, but I’ve surrended. So, I made a list. An AF is [...]

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Jay’s Ring, Black Diamonds, Baby

Jay’s Ring, Black Diamonds, Baby

Just a little something for the weekend. Jay Z’s ring is pretty nice, a white and black diamond combo. Black diamonds are coming back. I have seen these two tone rings more and more. Titanium is also a metal getting as popular as platinum. Black diamonds and titanium are still for those who want to [...]

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ADVICE: Should I Go Back To My Ex?

ADVICE: Should I Go Back To My Ex?

Recently, I came across my ex at a networking function. We were together in college and have been broken up for about 2 years. We’re both mid 30s and successfully employed. My question is: he wants to get back together, should I? We were very young when we were together and he had made lots [...]

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