A Sign An Alphanista Almost Always Ignores In Life
A pretty recent throwback to remind you how we do! Enjoy!
This list can be 100.
There are so many more non alphas than there are alphas in the world. Being an alpha female is rare, but you can learn how to adapt their traits your own needs. That’s what an alphanista does. Learning alpha ways can make a big difference in how people perceive you, and you the world.
And 90% of life is about perception. Based on research for a project I have in the works, this seems to be a good start. There’s nothing politically correct about it. Alphas are not politically correct, as a matter of fact, they are hardly correct, they just win at life, surprising the world around them. Who doesn’t like to surprise and dazzle every now and then?
And the losers are:
- Have lots of friends who define you and you need their acceptance
- Want to be liked by other women
- Think flirting with the boss should be punishable by death
- Think life happens to you, not through you
- Believe you’re a victim and people just don’t understand
- Use tears to manipulate people
- Don’t understand the power of words, it’s just words, right?
- Let words like “taken” stop you from your true love
- Follow the rule books on what’s right and what’s wrong and believe winning is for selfish people
- Feel comfortable in being like everyone else you know, ordinary and underwhelming
- Walk into a room with a unsure vibe that says “Hello World?” and drag yourself on over to your side of the room, always easily forgotten or ignored unless you speak
- Find yourself single, don’t want to be, but you’ve accepted it
- Stop learning about other people and stick to a close knit of predictable friends
- Believe men are bad and will do mean things to you because they are all the same
- Do not have at least one person who looks up and admires you (your mama, lil bro/sis, cousin tee tee don’t count)
- Have never had an event put together in your honor (the gals putting together a surprise party don’t count)
- Have never received an award of recognition from your community
- Have never “signed” anything for anyone (checks, included)
- Do what is asked of you at work, nothing more, nothing less because it’s a just a job not part of the master plan
- Master plan, huh?
If you are at least 11 of these items, you need therapy.
Oh thank God I don’t need therapy. LOL
Love this list!
This was great to read. I like the Not list. Great idea.
Oh, and don’t forget…
- Refuse to see outside of your circumference of awareness
- Don’t travel
- Loose your cool easily
- Confuses overly judgemental behavior with being discerning
Thank goodness there are so many more items on this list that DO NOT describe me! I have been there though, so I feel good in saying that I have come a long way. The biggest thing I have noticed in a number of women, that seriously holds us back, is #1&2. There are MANY women that look for acceptance and guidance from other women because we don’t trust men or, worse, don’t trust ourselves. Yea, that list could definitely go to 100!
I guess I’m quasi alpha. There are many things on this list that apply to me and other things that don’t.
was trying to post all day, post was stuck, anyway this is a GOOD list but #2 has always been hard for me I need to be liked and that has gotten me in trouble!
I feel like I am a Alpha Female in training. I don’t have a lot of money, hell, I’m not on the cover of a magazine… yet; but what I do have is self possession, perseverance and passion. I have flaws but I am driven so the flaws cancel out. This list is sooo not me. I love my friends but I don’t ask for their approval and I am my own best friend. I believe Alpha Females are like this in order to be critical thinkers and successful in their chosen profession. They also know when to turn that shit off and just be themselves- that’s why men are attracted to them. I know I will get there soon.
@nukirk but many women think this way and it stops progress it took me a while, not to say this is the right or wrong way to be either, it has to fit who the person is inside
You should have easily titled this “define insanity”. It sounds exactly the same.
I can happily say that I am only 4 of these things–will not see which ones! LOL