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My Let Go Plan: Never Thought It Could Happen

By Guest Blogger *Nadine Samuel I am the Eternal Optimist! I am always the one there for friends for a shoulder to lean, cry, and shake on. I lend an ear and hand to anyone who needs. I arranged blind dates that have led to marriage, I share my resources, and I even have a [...]

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MY LET GO PLAN: A Man For The Holidays?

by admin in Uncategorized

By Guest Blogger *Cheri Williams I took up the challenge to find a man before the end of the year without looking for one. I got an email from Alphanista that suggested that if I started last Tuesday, it may very well happen. It’s not like I don’t meet men all the time because I [...]

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ADVICE: My Man Or My Mama?

by Maryann in Advice

Okay. This one is OPEN advice. I know exactly what I’d tell this reader, but I want to hear your opinions on this one. Today’s “Tip” was inspired by this. ________________________ I am a 36 year old female living in the Bronx. No kids. I have been single for the last seven years, and hadn’t [...]

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Weekend Rewind: How To “Vet” A Man

by admin in Relationships

By Guest Blogger, Zabeth Vet: verb; to appraise, verify, or check for accuracy, authenticity, validity, etc. Can you tell I like making sure things are defined? Vetting isn’t as hard as some would like to believe; of course this is easier said than done. The most important part is knowing what you want. I’m assuming [...]

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POLL: Would You Do It If He Asked?

by Maryann in Lifestyle

Question: If the man you are engaged to asked you to lose weight or he won’t marry you, would you do it? Would you lose weight? I recently had a friend who encountered this. She’s in the process of endless workouts with a trainer now. Countless men and women have to compromise and negotiate before [...]

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WTF Fridays: “Crazy” People

by Maryann in WTF Fridays

I just can’t stand this. We just came off the holidays and I met so many people who were “busy” and were “crazy” during the holidays and had “so much” to do. Even in January, they are harping on it. This time of year comes around the same time every year! New Year in January, [...]

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How To Prepare For Your Future Obama

by admin in Relationships

By Te-Erika Patterson We are getting so many requests for our Most Eligible Bachelors, but are you ladies ready? Whether you have to lead your future Obama to his place of prominence or serve him while he makes his ascension there are 4 key alpha female characteristics that you must draw from within yourself in [...]

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Don’t Get Married

by Maryann in News, Relationships

Recently, I read an article on Huffington Post about divorce. That will be the LAST article I read about how bad marriage is…period. It’s like there this effort out there to completely destroy the image of marriage. Well, let me just say. To be in a union is ingrained in our DNA. The marketing [...]

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Intuition: I’ll Show You My Breath, If You Show Me Yours

by Maryann in Relationships

You can tell a liar by how they breathe. Over the phone is hard to tell. But face to face you can catch a liar. When people fib they breathe differently. Shorter, faster breaths. It doesn’t mean that this person has to be all out breathless gasping for air in front of you. It means [...]

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10 Reasons She Hates Men

by Maryann in Relationships

A few weeks ago, I posted the reasons Why Men Hate Women. This is the other side. It’s said that the more sex a woman has the less likely she is to worry about the “little” details below. She’s sunnier, calmer, and less affected. For the other 90% of women, they have a bone to [...]